Post Operation Doctor visit

Well I was hoping for better news but at least my restrictions are gone at least i think so. Doctor checked my incisions and said they looked great. Then felt my stomach and gave me a look an says- Have you been following your restrictions. I gave him a look and said as best as I can. He says he will release me but i have obviously not been following them as i should have been because my stomach on the inside is still scared or whatever some cleft thing he was talking about, and that i do in fact need to take it easy on my stomach muscle use and until i truely do i won't heal. Said i have strained it during the healing process and the nausea I still get if i touch a certain spot on my stomach is a sure sign- not healed. Or the tenderness that my stomach still has to a simple touch. So I kindly explained to him that I am a mother of four plus two boyfriend kids-and they always want something or cant do something for themselves and that means it up to me, i run a 24 hour taxi, work at the car lot, and have to clean my house if i wish for it to be clean the way i want it. So there. I guess I will adjust to the minor inconvience of nausea and some achiness when it decides to come upon me.